With Working From Home becoming a new normal post the pandemic, many parents find themselves in a state of constantly juggling. Juggling the demands of their careers and the needs of their children. The rise of remote working means more parents are facing the challenge of trying to balance work commitments while also being present for their families at home. In many ways this has given many parents more time to be present with their children, and for dads in particular it means they can see more of their children rather than just occasions and getting special birthday wishes for dad.So while it may seem like an impossible task at times, with some planning, flexibility, and patience, it is possible to successfully navigate the waters of parenting while working from home. Here’s our tips:
1. Establish a Routine: One of the keys to successfully managing both work and parenting responsibilities is to establish a daily plan. Set specific work hours and communicate them to your employer, colleagues, and family members. Having a routine will not only help you stay organized but also provide a sense of structure for both you and your children.
2. Create a Dedicated Workspace: Designate a specific area in your home as your workspace if you can. Ideally, this should be a quiet, comfortable space where you can focus without distractions. Make sure it is equipped with all the necessary equipment you need to do your job effectively. Setting boundaries around your workspace will help your children understand when you are working and when you are available to spend time with them. This may take some time to really become a routine, but setting the foundations is important.
3. Communicate with Your Employer: Be open and honest with your employer about your situation as a parent working from home. Discuss any challenges you may be facing and work together to find solutions that accommodate both your work responsibilities and your family commitments. In my experience, employers are understanding and flexible, especially in today’s remote work environment – as long as they have the heads up about it.
4. Set Realistic Expectations: It’s important to set some sound expectations for both your work and your parenting duties. Let’s be upfront that you may not be able to devote 100% of your attention to either task at all times. This can cause a lot of parenting guilt. So it’s important to prioritize your tasks based on urgency and importance, and don’t be too hard on yourself if you can’t accomplish everything on your to-do list in one day.
5. Can youUtilize Childcare Options?: If possible, consider enrolling your children in childcare or hiring a babysitter to help care for them during your work hours. This will allow you to focus on your job without interruptions and ensure that your children are being properly supervised and entertained. If you’re fortunate enough to have close friends or family around perhaps they’ll consider stepping in from time to time?
6. Making Flexible Work Arrangements: Many employers offer flexible work arrangements, such as adjusted hours or compressed workweeks, that can help you better balance your work and family responsibilities. Talk to your employer about these options and see if they can be implemented to better accommodate your needs.
7. Set Boundaries with Your Children: Clearly communicate with your children about your work schedule and the importance of respecting your time and space while you are working. Set boundaries around interruptions and let them know when it is okay to approach you for help or attention.
8. Schedule Breaks and Family Time: It’s essential to take regular breaks throughout the day to rest and recharge. Use these breaks to spend quality time with your children, whether it’s playing a game, going for a walk, or simply sitting down for a snack together. These moments of connection will strengthen your bond with your children and help alleviate any guilt you may feel about working from home.
9. Be Flexible and Patient: Above all, be flexible and patient with yourself and your children. Understand that there will be good days and bad days, and that’s okay! Look at it this way – you are going tolearn to adapt to unexpected changes and challenges, and so don’t be afraid to ask for help when you need it. With time and practice, you will find a rhythm that works for you and your family.